By Ally Lozada —
Have you ever caught your man’s eyes wandering at other women and get the feeling that he’s not interested in you anymore? Don’t lose hope in your stale relationship; here are some tips to help you be the eye candy your man is craving.
Taking care of yourself doesn’t always mean you are vain. Eating healthy will always benefit you, and constantly eating fast food will drive you down. Don’t binge on salads either; a burger here or there won’t kill you.
A lot of men enjoy seeing their leading ladies in sweats and no make up, but that doesn’t mean you should live in them. Mix it up once in a while, or when you two have a date; slap on some mascara or some lip gloss. By looking stunning, you can make sure he’s looking at you and compliments are always a plus.
Smart is sexy. Be aware of what is going on around you. You don’t have to know every politician’s name, but it won’t hurt to know some of the issues being discussed. Being book smart is great, but street smart indicates your wittiness and ability to be mindful of the world. Book smarts are another attribute; it shows that you want to get ahead in life.
Motivation is another attractive feature. If you went to college, use your degree without having someone to push you. If you constantly need someone to motivate you, it can be seen as co-dependency and no one likes that. Striving higher can even inspire other people around you to do the same. Confidence is sexy, so make sure to work it.
Be able to take jokes – and dish them out. Don’t be so uptight, learn to take jokes, or else, your relationship will be kind of lame. Many girls make the mistake of getting offended way too easily and try to pick a fight over something trivial. Instead of getting offended, beat him at his own game, be quick on your feet, and throw a joke at him.
“Smart is sexy. Be aware of what is going on around you.”Being supportive of others, especially the apple of your eye, is always a positive thing. If they support whatever you do, then treat them the same, even if their ideas sound silly to you. You may think his dreams are silly, but to him, buying 50 pairs of shoes that you won’t wear are silly (and a waste of money). Always have faith in those you love.
Leave your insecurities behind! Remember, confidence is sexy, no one wants the nagging girl on their back, and in the long run, you’ll just be considered as “the crazy jealous girl.” Don’t give other women the satisfaction of knowing they got under your skin. Play it cool, calm, and collective.
If you are stuck in a rut, or if you want to mix it up a bit, all these attributes are a sure to get some heads turning. Honestly, the best advice is to just be you, but taking some tips wouldn’t hurt to try, if you are looking to improve your less than appealing habits.