By Brittany Woodard—
Thinking back to your very first Valentine? Been so long you can’t even remember ever having one? Don’t freak out before the big day. Here’s a few, quick and easy, first time Valentine’s date do’s and don’ts:
Do’s:
Give your undivided attention to your significant other, this is extremely important! No one wants to be sitting at dinner watching their significant other laugh at a disturbing text or Instagram their current meal or outfit of the day.
Be spontaneous, as scary as it may sound. Being impulsive and doing the unexpected isn’t always a bad thing! Plus its 2013, surprises are the most meaningful gestures, especially if they are unexpected.
Be romantic, yes it’s okay to be a little cliché, just don’t overdo it. The flowers, the candlelit dinner, the sex, the chocolate, can be considered cute since it’s your first valentines date, just as long as it comes naturally. Everyone needs a bit of romance to spice up their love life.
Be yourself. Don’t bust your balls trying too hard to impress someone. Think realistically, if they truly like you, they’ll like the real you; don’t get too ahead of yourself.
Don’ts:
First and foremost, don’t forget! This is a serious do not. Not only will you upset your significant other but you’ll look like the idiot. With all the social networks and the obnoxious media advertisements out there, you’d have to be a cave man to forget Valentine’s Day. So save the date even if you need Siri to set a reminder!
Don’t talk about your ex’s! No good can come out of this, it’s a turn off and it will lead to a boring date. How do you expect to move on to your next if you’re too busy talking about your ex?
Don’t wait until the last minute! Timing is everything don’t be one of those people who end up having to run to the nearest gas station for a bouquet of roses after rush hour, you’ll only set yourself up for failure.
These are just a few among many other typical do’s and don’ts for first dates, such as good hygiene, dress to impress, what foods to avoid that leave you with bad smelling breath and act interested even if you’re not.
Remember, actions speak louder than words, until you witness someone’s regular actions, you will have yet to see the real them!