By Alan Pereira—
Saying “I love you” is one of the hardest things to do, right next to proposing to your spouse. For other individuals saying “I love you” is one of the easiest things to do. Saying these three magical words is usually used as a sign of endearment that by people those are in relationships, family members, and or close friends. Saying “I love you” should not be used for only Hallmark moment. Saying these three magical words should be also used when you leave the house in the morning, when sending a special email to your significant other, or when you are in a special moment.
Now if you are the type of person who is interested in learning different ways in saying I love you now if the romantic type of a person it would be very beneficial in learning different ways says I love you in different languages. In the same token if you not a romantic type you might not find learning a new language beneficial. In countries like Brazil, Puerto Rico, and China the way they say “I love you” is not usually said like the Americanized way. because the person that you are trying to build with is the way they say “I Love You” in Brazil is “Te Amo” people might say it similar to the Latin America way but Latin America has a different way of saying “I Love You” is “Te Querio”. In China the way they say these magic words is like woaini.
How to say “I love you” in different languages
French – Je t’aime (Jah-tEM)
Italian – “Ti Amo” (Tee-Ah-Mo)
German – “Ich Liebe Dich” (Ick- Lee- Bah- Dik)
Japanese – “Aishiteru” (Eye-Shee-Ter-U)
English – “I love you”
However if you are typical male that is growing up in a family that has old fashion values. You should know that it is very uncommon to expression your feelings in a sensitive or a caring manner. To illustrate an example of an old fashion value I asked one of the student’s on “how you say these magical words?” and the students responses was “I wait for them to say I love you first” Rocco, 23; Art major, from Jersey City. Old fashion values like that are very hard to come by. To elaborate more on this point today’s society it is very hard to find a man to be shiverish. Even though today’s society it is more accepting for a man to share their feelings. And for that a man should consider the feelings of their spouse and for this purpose a student stated “I mean it I say it, but if I don’t mean it, I don’t say it” John Carlos from Bayonne, NJ 22 years old, and a music education major. Again this approach is quite effective because you would have a solid idea that your spouse’s feelings are not hurt.
For instance if you are guy who has never been in a relationship before and you beginning you might say something like you might be unsure about on how to say these magical words to your spouse. So when I asked another student for his opinion on how he would say these magical words the student stated “Damn that stretch, I don’t know about telling some bitch I love you” Oscar, biology major, 23 years old. Again you might feel that the statement might be a bit offensive but for a person who have never had a relationship it maybe be like that because they either might be nervous on how to tell your spouse these magical word. However if you have been in previous relationship had have past relationship you might feel the same way cause you maybe are entering new relationship.